vrijdag 14 juli 2017

Book Excerpt Your Crossroads. Your Choice.


Book Excerpt

1.    What happens to us is not what makes us unique. It’s the choices we make at the crossroads that arise from these life events that define who we are. The choices are what we are in control of.
2.    We are only in control of how we react to our crossroads and the choices we make at each one and the emotions we feel about those choices.
3.    What pieces will I dust off and take with me? What pieces will I choose to leave behind?
4.     If I choose to heal then I have to let go of the uncontrollable and focus on what I do have control over, me
5.     I can only control my own choice and therefore my own happiness. 
6.    I chose, which now I see was not the right thing, to push my uniqueness down and show the parts of me that weren’t met with such scrutiny
7.    I chose, which now I see was not the right thing, to push my uniqueness down and show the parts of me that weren’t met with such scrutiny
8.    you can’t control other people’s happiness. It comes from within themselves just as yours comes from within you. All you can do is share your happiness. What they do with the happiness you have shared with them is a choice only they can make
9.    when this radical idea was born, our marriage pretty much died.

About the Book

Title: Your crossroads. Your choice.
Author: EJ Apicello
Genre: Self-help
Welcome to my diary, my journey, as I tripped and crawled through the darkest time in my life- when I witnessed  people that I held incredibly close to me shatter my very existence with their words and actions. The things within this book spine are extremely raw and exceptionally real. You and I are going to get very close, the details in this book, although oddly general, are incredibly specific. Yes, I realize what I just said and as you read my words you will see what I mean. As you silently gasp and mentally bitch slap me, please be kind because my story is just that – my story. It is not any more or less special than yours. In fact the only difference between our stories are the choices we made at each of the crossroads in our lives. For most of my life the choices I made were not based on my happiness but on everyone else’s. This book describes what I have experienced in my journey to finding my happiness and hopefully never letting it go. Sadly, it took me thirty six years to find the strength I need to detoxify my life and self view and find someone who is worthy of my awesomeness. Thirty six years to shatter the negative foundation I had built shatter the ultimate representative I created to hide behind and begin the process of building a new foundation. Only this foundation will be built on strength, confidence and above all, happiness. So take a minute or thirty and sit with my story for a while. You never know what you might find out.

Author Bio

Welcome to my real, crazy, emotional, probably too honest journey. I am an everyday girl in this everyday world trying to keep my head above water and within the pages of this book you will learn about the things that have broken me down  and the steps I am taking to build back up. You will see, my new friends, that this story is written in a unique, general, conversational voice, which was my choice. I want you to be able to picture yourself in my shoes, relate my trials and tribulations to yours and see that you too can find your happiness. Even if you don’t realize this yet, every single one of us possesses things inside of ourselves that we didn’t know were there. It took my life taking a crazy right turn and dumping me at the lowest possible point before I could see the strength within myself. We are not defined by what we do, we are defined by the choices we make. I decided when I put pen to paper that I want my choices to start defining me as strong, confident, secure and above all else, happy. So, who am I? How about I tell you who I was – a self loathing shell of myself who put everyone else’s happiness before my own. Herein lies my story to find that happiness and all of the ups and downs along the way. See who I was and who I am trying to become and maybe, somewhere in there, you will find out a little about yourself too.

Links

www.ejapicello.com
@ejapicello
facebook.com/ejapicello
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